There are certain words you never thought you would use. Words like potty...but here you are, you're a mom now, and potty has become one of the most frequently used words in your vocabulary. Along with words you would prefer not to say, you are finding yourself asking some awkward questions. I ask them all the time, and I don't limit it to my children. My husband gets asked as well....along with other family members and random friends. I may even ask an occasional stranger or two, but don't worry - it's OK. I'm a Mom, I'm required by law to ask these questions.
'Did you wash your hands?'
Oh, how I wish this was a given, but it's not. I have two step-sons and anytime I hear a flush, you will hear me yelling through the house - 'Did you wash your hands?!' And more often than not, I will hear little feet run back into the bathroom and the water go on...
'Can you say PLEASE?'
My daughter's vocabulary is expanding daily, and I know for a fact that 'please' is in there. So, why does she forget to use it from time to time? It's not just 'please', we are also working on 'Thank you' and 'You're Welcome'. 'Excuse Me' on the other hand she has down pat! That's all you hear as she's tearing through the house and occasionally bumping into things - 'Oh...hee hee...Excuse Me!' - and off she goes again.
'Do you need to go potty?'
Because I don't want to be 5 minutes down the road when you decide you have to go...Just as my Mother taught me, and her mother taught her...now I'm teaching you - You always go before you leave the house!
'Did you say Sorry?'
Sometimes a big hug and kiss isn't enough, you're going to have to say the actual words...I don't know why that's so hard for some people...
'Are you hungry? Are you thirsty?'
It's not that we are trying to love you fat...we are nurturing and caring and want to support healthy growth and energy for running and jumping and playing! Sometimes little people (and even big people) get too busy having fun to remember that they are hungry or dehydrated, it's our job to make sure that doesn't happen.
So, the next time you sit down to dinner at my house and I ask you if you washed your hands - NO, I'm not YOUR mother ( or a germ-o-phobe ), but I am A mother. While it may seem bossy and controlling, it's really not. A mom's main focus is on molding her little people into responsible, productive and independent grown-ups. We are in constant teaching mode and sometimes it spills over into other areas of our lives and onto other people... .